Okay...another giiirl question!! (already asked once)?

alright, so i know i already asked about tampons..but seriously. i feel like such a stupid person because i can't get one up...! i'm getting really really really really frustrated....this might get personal but i don't care, i can get it like 3/4 the way up and then it just hurts to go any farther..so should i just push the applicator from there? please have serious answers because im not in the mood for peoples rudeness. thanks!